Pain of a girl........

India, country of different religion, different people.
A country where we worship Devi / Goddess , where girl is like a face of Goddess Laxmi, we worship the girls,

When a girl become new bride, she see some dreams of her new family and future but when that new dream turned into evil dream how much pain she feels.. When that bride tortured for dowry, beaten by her husband for dowry, and sometimes burned. :(
Why that bride don't raised her voice for justice , why she kept this secret inside until she died or killed by her dear ones. Why don't that girl do something, why that girl tortured by some one whats her mistake just because she belonged to middle family or poor family who are unable to give dowry as much as they want.

"I just want to know, what is the mistake of that girl....................."


A 23 year girl rapped by six demons in a bus, they sexually abuse her and what our system do nothing...
whats her mistake , why she harassed by those demons. Is she wear small clothes  or she invite them for being harassed, no she just came back with her friend her big mistake. She didn't knew that mistake took her life, She has to live so y she left this world because she knew that she did not survive with this pain for so long,

"What is the mistake of that girl???"


or that 5 year girl harassed by 19 year's boy, whats the mistake of that girl, is she wear small clothes or not belonged from good family.
She is just a small kid who don't know what good or what bad, why she harassed by that bloody demon..

If i have rights i shoot all the bloody demons but i just want that we all wake up now and pass our message to system that we need results on the spot, we don't want anymore dates for those cases we need crime free India not criminal India.....

When a girl born, her parents trying to kill her because they think she become burden on them in future.
They killed baby before she open her eyes in this world, Why this happen?? She has right to live so y she killed by her own parents........

Hope u all understand what i trying to say and what i want....

SAVE GIRL SAVE GODDESS SAVE HUMANITY...................

Bifurcations in love and friendship

Love and friendship one of the same thing but in different manner.... Loving a person shows cares and loving a person shows friendship.....

But in love and friendship bifurcation is possible..

According to survey, when a new friend enters in our life then we bifurcate our friends into different parts :- Best Friends,  True Friends, Good Friends , Great Friends , and Friends also.. More and more friends means more and more bifurcations..
Someone thought only childhood friends are BFF (Best Friend Forever) while some thought True friends are BFF whether they met in childhood or in some age of life.... I don't know why they created that type of perception that only childhood friends are BFF but their wish may be they regret some day on this kind of mentality....

In love, when your partner came in your life, you bifurcate your parents love and give some share of their love to your partner and when you become parent then you bifurcate your parents and partner love into one more part because you are now parent..... Basically we bifurcate love into three different parts......

One question arise in my mind , why we bifurcate our friendship and love when a new person come in our life ?

One more question arises into my mind that we bifurcate love into one more part... If we are with someone from many years and suddenly we like some one else or we become confused between two people, Which one will be chosen?. If we choose that new one than we change our love and may be its a cheating with your that lover whom you loved since long time and if we choose existing then why we fall for new one??????

If anyone knows the answer of these question then publish your answer......

Waiting for your comments.........................

Love and Romance

What do you mean by love????

♥♥❤❤ According to dictionary, Love is an intensive feeling of affection and care towards another person.
When you are in love you do not bother about other, for you just you and your lover.

Love is composed of single soul in two bodies. Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while deeply someone deeply gives you courage.

Sometimes your eyes speak, what you are hiding inside your heart and sometimes your heart speak what dreams you kept in your eyes.

Mahatma Gandhi once said- Where there is love there is the life... Today i am gonna explain this one,  According to Mahatma Gandhi if love is present between two souls then that love is the life of those souls....

Love is like mobile, once we are habitual of mobile we cant leave the mobile, similarly once we are in love , we don't regret for that whether that love is in partners , friends or best friends.

The great feeling when you love someone and you get same as in reply.......  When you love someone, it's something but when someone loves you it's another thing but when you love that person who love you its everything......

Love is the beautiful thing in this world because we can't see , nor touched but we can feel it inside someones heart...

Magical words I LOVE YOU stands a lot in lovers life but when these words just remain words they hurt a lot.....

Love is not the physical attraction for love a person its actually a magical connection between your heart and your lover's heart.....  ♥♥♥❤❤❤

If you are in love like this blog.........

Birthday wishes

Birthday is like a new day for that person who has his/her birthday because that day is special form that person and that person feels like big... A special day which comes once in a year, that day u feel like king/queen , you celebrate you enjoy and moreover you are happy on your special day...

It's time for birthday party
and time to get some fun,
Tonight we'll rock the dance floor,
Let turn the music on...

It has been said that real friends 
Are very hard to find. 
The ones that stay when times are tough 
A real friend - the lasting kind. 
As I travel through this life, 
I know one thing is true. 
I will never find a better friend 
Than I have found in YOU!

Bollywood two greatest song which played on every birthday-----

* Baar Baar din ye aae,
   baar baar dil ye gaye,
   tum jio hazaro saal,
   bas ye meri aarzu.
   Happy birthday to u, happy birthday to you..

* Hum bhi agar bache hote,
   hum bhi agar bache hote,
   naam humara hota paplu tappu,
   or khate besan ke ladu,
   or duniya kehti happy birthday to you.......

Choose your friend-- A friend in a need is a friend indeed....

A friend in a need is a friend indeed.

A friend who stand next to you in each phase of life is true friend..That person shows selfless love and friendship.. Selfless friendship is the greatest weapon in the world for conquer the fear. True friend believes on you and help you when ever you are in trouble, he/she sharing small small moment of their life with you...

On other hand selfish friend also exist. A person who is standing n ext to you and watch you in trouble and ignore instead  of helping you is selfish friend. Selfish friend is rich in words but poor in deed. When you are in trouble that person leaves you in that lurch.

Basically selfless friend is angel and selfish friend is devil....

Best example of selfless friendship is-- Krishna and sudama..
They both showed the meaning of true friendship, they care for each other, they don't believe on status (rich and poor) they just showed genuine friendship..
When sudama arrived to Krishna's palace, Krishna give him seat and wash sudama's feet by his tears.. Krishna was very happy that dy because his friend came to meet him, but he was sad because of the condition of his friend, then he decided to make his friend rich...

True friendship means great self-sacrifice on the part of both. A true friend foregoes pleasure and convenience. Joy and sorrow, success and failure, good fortune and misfortune, are equally shared by a pair of true friends.
They shoulder the burden of life equally for they feel that they sail in the same boat and that they have to sink and swim together.

On other hand example of selfish friendship is Duryodhan and karana, duryodhan knew that karana was son of kunti but he used karana as a weapon in Mahabharata's war against karana's brother "The Pandavas". Duryodhan showed his selfishness but karana showed meaning of friendship.

A selfless friend stops you when you are wrong but selfish friend motivates you to that work.

A friend is a medicine of life, lucky is the man who has true friends in his/her life...

Now choose your friend according to your choice......... :)

Smile vs Sadness

Smile and sadness are the part of human life. Smile makes everyone happy and sadness shows pain.

Smile squeeze the distance between two person and sadness shows pain for true friend, Friend help other for conclusion and make them happy by their funniest ways..

Sadness can't be choose by anyone and every one wants smile.Sometimes smile and sadness face each other on same path..

let me share a small story, a story about two brides..

Both are dressed up in her wedding dress . They both met on the path and said today i became bride and you too but the difference was today i am going to my husband's home and you left from your husband's home..

We both are bride today, we both in palanquin , we both are covered by flowers and people around us.

But the problem is i came with happiness in my new family and you are going after giving sadness to your family.. I start my new life and you are going after finishing your life, we both start our new journey today but in other world..

Smile creates world and sadness separate world .......

Both are the part of life.....  

Life vs Death

Life and death are two sides of a coin.. whoever took birth meet his/her death one day. But I am not taking about only life, I am taking about whole parameters....

Death remain unchanged but life varied, anything that happened in life was unpredictable whether it was good or worse ...

Many things in life remain untouched and after death it doesn't matters because after death no one cares about life...

Life makes relationship and death breaks all the relationships.... 

In friendship, Friends are life, they are souls of friendship but when one friend don't trust on other it breaks the friendship.

If someone says anything which directly link up with the trust, that friendship will not forever because trust is absent in that friendship...

Trust your friends else result is death of friendship.....

Human Nature

People use others for their own sake.. Its a human tendency which proof in today's world each and every person is selfish...

They don't think about others they just want themselves to become superior.. 

According to my experience, those who said you don't know the meaning of friendship, actually they don't know and that's why they try to defeat other person by their views.

Becoming a friend shows a path towards friendship and UN friend someone shows a path towards hate and some time enemy also.

Its a human nature which shows no one care in this world except the exceptions, they care for themselves first and if they have time then they think for others....

I am unlucky because i am captured in this type of pool but i am lucky because my buddies always with me to take me out from that pool...

Thank you Prateek and Ankit......

Idiots...

Just wanted to know why in bollywood movies they have only 3 kaminas all the tym like 3 idiots, Pyaar ka punchnama, will u marry me, mujhse frndship karoge etc...????

Life is a music

Life is like music. Each day a new tune for new day, some times the tune is sad some time mad, some time soft some time hard,  some time romantic and some time hectic, but each and every tune is the part of life....

Each and every lyrics of life present something to some one may be a love song to your beloved , some times mad song for friend and some time sad for some one, but we have to enjoy each and every song of life.

If i have to dedicate a song for my friends who are the part of my life i shared Har ek friend kamina hota hai like my buddies Prateek and Ankit.
If i have to share a song for my parents then mujhe maaf karna om sai ram tujhse pehle lunga mummy daddy ka naam.
If i share song for my love i share tujhme rab dikhta hai yaara main kya karu.

All the song are part of our busy life, enjoy each moment because who knows kal ho na ho...

I hope every one has same kind of life so enjoy ur life frnds...

Hiding Pain

Smile shows many thing basically u r happy, but it doesn't mean that the person is happy from inside.
Every one says that the person is very happy or always smile on his/her life but no one knows actual pain inside his/her heart....

Some one having pain after fight wid his/her beloved, some one wid his/her friend but always have a pain inside.
some one pain of losing some one or sum1 hiding pain because of not having some1.

Each and every person hide the pain...